In this post we will briefly answer a question that was asked by one of our clients

Three years ago it came to light that my husband had been acting in sexually inappropriate ways with one of the girls in the soccer team he was coaching. He’s now in prison doing time. Although my daughter was on that team as well, I had no idea this was going on. How could I have missed something as huge as this when I was married to the man! The problem is I now can’t trust myself to judge anyone’s character. How can I learn to trust my instincts again?

First of all, I am so sorry this has happened to you. To be hit out of the blue by something as shocking and life-changing as this, is extremely hard to cope with. It is absolutely devastating.

But let me deal with your…