See No Evil, Hear No Evil, Speak No Evil

Don't Lose Hope

Nobody wants to remember trauma. In that regard, society is no different from the victims themselves. We want to live in a world that is safe, manageable, and predictable – and victims remind us that this is not always the case.” – Bessel Vander Kolk

This is the reason people close their ears, turn their faces away, and choose to close their hearts to those who want, and need, to talk about traumatic things.

And this is the main reason why these people judge and shame you – when you find the strength and courage to speak the awful truth … and say were betrayed, or victimized in other ways.

They don’t want to hear it, and they don’t want to know.

For if it happened to you, then it could happen to them, too.

And that is something they can’t bear to contemplate.

So when they’re…

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