Too often we make relationships more complicated than they need to be. Here are some principles for simplifying things.

1. It’s a fact that all relationships require some work – They don’t stay healthy and get deeper on their own. They persist and thrive when both people are invested, and risk being open and vulnerable. Honesty and being real are the two key components for maintaining rewarding relationships.

2. As a general rule of thumb, you get back what you put in – If you want friends you need to be friendly. If you want to feel cared for, then you need to show you care. Of course, there are exceptions – but in most relationships it’s a simple approach that consistently works.

3. You shouldn’t have to fight to be important to someone – If they don’t see your worth, don’t waste your time on them. If they want…