“A partner affected by intimate betrayal experiences a level of pain that is indescribable. The hurt is so profound and complex, partners often wonder if it will ever get better.” – Shira Olsen
You’re likely in crisis if you’ve learned that your spouse is addicted to sex or pornography. It’s not the kind of news you expect to hear!
And you know that you need help … but you don’t know where to turn. You want to find a counsellor … but who will understand?
When you’re in a state of shock you need a crisis counsellor who knows what it is like to be completely traumatized; not someone who will offer you generic counselling.
The Kind of Counsellor to Avoid at this Time
In the initial weeks and months, you should avoid a counsellor:
– Who wants to look at how you might have contributed to, or played a…
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