Below are some questions we’re often asked when spouses learn that their partner has a sex addiction – a very distressing and disorienting experience.
1. Is it possible to identify when the addiction began?
The majority of guys say they stumbled upon porn, or were actively shown porn, at around 10 years of age. They remember the adrenalin rush they experienced, and the powerful pull to view more images, or to watch more videos.
2. Why did my partner hide it from me?Why did he choose to lie and deceive me?
Although guys know lots of people look at porn all the time, they’re usually convinced that their partner will be shocked. And their greatest fear is that you’ll walk away.
So, coming clean with you feels incredibly threatening. They’re terrified they’ll lose you, and their life will fall apart. There is also shame and guilt around a sex…
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